If you have never experienced mediation before, you may be unsure what to expect. Many people associate family mediation with confrontation or difficult conversations, but the reality is often very different. Mediation provides a structured and supportive environment in which separating couples can discuss the issues that need to be resolved.
At Hampshire Mediation, the mediator is an impartial professional who does not take sides or make decisions for you. Their role is to help you communicate effectively, identify the issues that need to be resolved and explore possible solutions.
What happens during a mediation session?
Before mediation begins, each person will have an individual meeting with the mediator; individual in that your ex-partner will not be present, but you can bring a friend if you would like. This provides an opportunity to discuss your circumstances privately and consider whether mediation is suitable.
If mediation proceeds, the sessions will involve just the two participants and the mediator. You will have the opportunity to explain what is important to you and why, and will be able to listen to the other person’s concerns. The mediator will help keep the discussion constructive and focused on finding practical solutions.
The subjects discussed will depend on your circumstances. They might include arrangements for children, the family home, finances, pensions and other matters arising from divorce or separation.
You are not expected to agree immediately. Mediation is a process, and it may take several sessions to work through the issues. The mediator can help you consider different options and understand the possible consequences of each.
A more constructive way forward
Mediation is not about deciding who is right or wrong. Instead, it is about helping both people reach their own informed decisions. This can give you greater control over the outcome than leaving decisions entirely to a court.
For many separating couples, family mediation provides a calmer and more constructive way to deal with the practical and financial consequences of divorce or separation.
Hampshire Mediation can help you understand what to expect and whether mediation could be suitable for your circumstances.